At our events we offer the opportunity to get to know like-minded people and to exchange ideas. For this purpose, we offer beginners, professionals or everyone topic-related or just meetings for a cozy exchange and chat. Below you will find explanations and frequently asked questions about our events. You can find the dates for this in the calendar<\/a>.<\/p>\n Please note: We do not organize play parties and are not a dating agency. We offer help for self-help.<\/p>\n The beginners meet & greet (mainly in German) always happens on the first Thursday of each month. Start time is 07.00 pm at the Sonntags-Club.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tMore about the Beginners meet & greet\n\t\t\t\t The beginners’ meeting usually takes place on the 1st Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. in the Sonntags-Club; the next date is in the calendar<\/a>. The Sonntags-Club is at Greifenhagener Str. 28 (city map<\/a>) and is easy to reach by S-Bahn and U-Bahn (Sch\u00f6nhauser Allee).<\/p>\n Attention, risk of confusion:<\/strong> Opposite from the Sonntags-Club is a caf\u00e9 called “Sonntags nie” (Never on Sundays). Anyone looking for us there will look in vain.<\/p>\nWhat is the difference to a Munch?<\/strong> Whatever you want to know, we will do our best to answer your questions or at least to name a contact person. We also have samples of some books and magazines and a few brochures for you to take away.<\/p>\nWhat can’t we do?<\/strong> Station: Sch\u00f6nhauser Allee<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tThe beginners meet & greet for English speaking folks\n\t\t\t\t Beginners Meet & Greet in English<\/strong><\/p>\n This is the event for you if you:<\/p>\n Please be on time for the meeting. Many first timers are shy and insecure. We want to respect that and want to avoid disturbances, so everyone can take their first steps in a safe and confidential environment.<\/p>\n We’ll try to answer all your questions. If you want to get in touch beforehand, please send an email to einsteigertreff@(this domain).<\/p>\n We look forward to meeting you!<\/p>\n Your BDSM Berlin e.V.<\/p>\nThe Sonntags-Club is located at: Greifenhagener Str. 28 (map<\/a>). ATTENTION, danger of confusion<\/strong>: right accross from the \u201eSontags-Club” is a cafe called \u201eSonntags nie”. If you are looking there, you wont find us.<\/p>\nIf your German is not so bad, you are also welcome at the monthly beginners meeting on the first Thursday of each month. Start time is 07.00 pm at the Sonntags-Club. Cost: free, no dresscode<\/p>\n At the moment, the stroll is only offered in German. If you are interested in an English Version, please let us know!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tMore about the Beginner’s stroll\n\t\t\t\tWhat is the difference to the beginners’ meeting and Munch? The Munch on the other hand is a casual meeting and serves to get to know each other; there is usually less talk about specific questions about BDSM.<\/p>\nAbout how many people meet there?<\/strong> Then we will visit 4 Berlin stores that offer kinky fashion and toys. There is no obligation to buy! On the contrary: it’s about making it easy to get started and giving a first glimpse of Berlin’s shopping diversity – far away from online shopping. Afterwards there is time for detailed consultations or visits to other shops that may serve your special kink better.<\/p>\n Between and during visits to the shops we provide information on safety, rules, media, parties and other shops , … In short: a lot of things that beginners are interested in or should know. We also have the opportunity to ask specific questions about handling toys.<\/p>\nWhat can’t we do?<\/strong> A visit to all the great shops in the city that offer something for all kinds of kinks, with plenty of time for individual advice and detailed information about all toys would take at least 3 days. Therefore, our goal is to provide initial assistance when crossing the threshold with a desire for more. Nothing stands in the way of an extensive shopping tour afterwards. Of course, there are also tips on other shops that might interest you.<\/p>\nIs there a “dress code”?<\/strong> Beginner’s Stroll<\/strong><\/p>\nStart: 1 p.m. sharp (Mehringdamm 79, 10961 Berlin) Check the calendar<\/a> for the next stroll.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tKinky Windowshopping for English speaking folks\n\t\t\t\t This event ist brand new. Therefore, it is currently offered in German only to weed out the kinks. If you wish for an English “Windowshop and Talk for Beginners and Berlin Newbies” version, contact us via einsteigertreff@(this domain). Then we know the demand for English speakers and can adjust accordingly.<\/p>\n Every first thursday of the month our regulars’ table takes place in Potsdam, where we simply meet in normal clothes to chat, exchange information, answer new questions, etc.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tWhen & Where\n\t\t\t\t BDSM Stammtisch Potsdam <\/strong> from 8 p.m.<\/p>\nLa Leander If you have any questions, write to us by email at bdsm-potsdam [et] freenet.de. You find the next date in the calendar<\/a>.<\/p>\n Every second Friday of the month we host the Petplay munch Berlin, starting 8.00 p.m. Everyone who is interested in their animal side is welcome. Owners and those who are just generally interested are also welcome. No matter if you are new, have a lot of experience, are gay, bi or hetero, you are welcome here. Ask your questions, meet interesting people and have fun.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tMore about the Pet-Play Munch\n\t\t\t\t Just sit together and chat about the common hobby. We have chosen a nice, public place. Of course, this means that no outfit or other equipment can be worn or brought along, but that is not an obstacle to having a nice chat and eating something delicious.<\/p>\n You can find out more on www.pets-de.org\/berlin<\/a>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tWhen & Where\n\t\t\t\t The Pet-Play Munch<\/strong> takes place every 2nd Friday of the month at 8 p.m.<\/p>\n at Caf\u00e9 Hardenberg Look out for one or more stuffed animals on the table. You can find the next appointment in the calendar<\/a>.<\/p>\n Even in a capital city like Berlin it can still be hard to make contact with like-minded people. Even people who were already outed and have now the wish to meet like-minded people were often found in front of impossibly high walls. Adds or meeting in shady places is nothing for everyone. You just don’t know what might happen and thus stay at home and do nothing.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, we currently have no organizer for the Wednesday Munch, so it is not taking place at the moment. If you would like to get involved, write to us (info [et] this domain) and we can revive it. The tasks include regular and punctual attendance as well as actively approaching Munch newbies to make initial contact easier for them. We would be very grateful for your help.<\/em><\/p>\n We therefore refer everyone to the other Munches<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t International Munches\n\t\t\t\t The International Munches are not organized by the BDSM Berlin e.V. But they are a great place to meet English speeking folks from all over the world and many of us participate.<\/p>\n This event is not a “PLAY” event, it’s a social and friendly meet up. Everyone is welcome! We ask you to speak English.<\/p>\n You can find all details in the calendar<\/a>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tMore about the Berlin Munch \n\t\t\t\t With the regular Munches we want to create a relaxed opportunity to get to know other SMers. Since we know from our own experience how difficult it is for many people to venture into relevant SM bars, we offer all curious people the opportunity to meet in a normal place without a dress code. For people who have been involved for a long time, we would like to create an opportunity to talk about SM experiences without being forced to confess.<\/p>\n We cannot provide therapy, just as we do not want to organize partner searches or tips for professional studios. The overall focus of the topic should be less on SM practices, safety aspects or the difficulties of coming out, rather we want to convey the feeling: “You are not alone”, there are still a lot of people in this city whose sexual preferences are a bit… well, different, and who are still pretty normal.<\/p>\n Whether you are lesbian, gay, bi or straight is irrelevant. It’s the same whether you’re a newbie or have years of experience with SM. Nobody has to publicly confess which side of the whip they like to play on.<\/p>\n Please note:<\/strong><\/p>\n We offer a variety of workshops. Topics include: SM & health, bondage, home made toys, flogging, needles, breath control, and more. We spread the details via our mailing-list.<\/p>\n The D\/s Munch is used for the exchange of experiences and for networking between people in relationships with a strong power imbalance. Regardless of whether they are called 24\/7 D\/s, M\/s, O\/p, TPE, FLR, PDD. It is designed as a discussion table where the participants can exchange information about their experiences and challenges in a trusting environment.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\tMore Details to the D\/s-Munch\n\t\t\t\tTarget group<\/strong>\n\t\tGeneral Event Information\n\t<\/h2>\n
\n\t\tOur Events\n\t<\/h2>\n\t\tOverview\n\t\t\t\t\t\n
\n\t\tBeginners meet & greet\n\t<\/h3>\n\tWho is this meet & greet for?<\/strong>
\nThis is for everyone that has just developed an interest in the lifestyle or people who have been practicing in their own private homes. If you do not belong to either one of these groups, you might be wrong here and might enjoy yourself better at one of the other munches. You are only eligible to attend if you are of age.\n
\nThe group is smaller and moderated. All participants are new themselves. In a small group it is easier to calmly answer your questions. The munch is a casual meeting and is more for getting to know each other; there is less (or not exclusively) talk about specific questions about BDSM. At the beginners’ meeting we are undisturbed in a separate room; the munch, on the other hand, takes place in a normal caf\u00e9.\nHow many people do you meet there?<\/strong>
\nVaries, but usually between 5 and 10.\nHow does such a meeting for beginners work?<\/strong>
\nAfter a short round of introductions, during which nobody has to say anything, but everyone can say something (which, by the way, always applies to our meetings ) we give some information about safety (code words, drugs, safer sex, doctors, covers …), rules (party behavior, personal ads, legal situation …), media, parties, shops, coming out …\n
\nThe beginners’ meeting is, like the Munch, no facility for relationship search. It serves solely to establish contact with like-minded people and get rid of the most burning questions. We make sure that no one is hit on against their will or questioned about their preferences. Anything that can be dealt with theoretically, we can discuss. We do not offer practical demonstrations there.\nIs there a “dress code”?<\/strong>
\nNo.\nDoes it cost anything?
\n<\/strong>No.\nDo I have to register?<\/strong>
\nNo – just drop by. For those who don’t like the idea of turning up there alone, we also offer the opportunity to meet one of us for a cup of coffee in advance (e-mail to info@(this domain) is sufficient).\nHow do I find you?<\/strong>
\nIn the Sonntags-Club there are always some kind of discussion groups and information events; the people behind the bar are used to it and will send you to us if you make a searching face.\nIs it important to show up on time?<\/strong>
\nYes. Anyone who shows up more than a quarter of an hour late will not be admitted and will have to wait until the next beginners’ meeting. We’re serious. If you can’t or don’t want to show up on time, you’re of course welcome at the Munch – that’s not an issue there.\nThis Sonntags-Club is a nice facility, but its website explicitly states that they appeal to homo-, trans- etc. -sexuals. There was nothing to be found of BDSM there.<\/strong>
\nThe problem is that there is simply no such thing as a Sonntags-Club for BDSMers. The Sonntags-Club is bright, spacious, easy to get to, with a quiet back room and we are welcomed with open arms. We do not only address heterosexual BDSMers, but also gays and lesbians. Since our other meetings take place in “normal” pubs, we believe that there should be something for all sexual preferences.\n\t\t\t\tWhen & Where\n\t\t\t\t Beginners’ meet & greet on the 1st Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. <\/strong>
\nat Sonntags Club <\/a>
\nGreifenhagener Str. 28
\n10437 Berlin\n\n
\nHow to get there: city train (S-Bahn) S41, S42 and S85 Sch\u00f6nhauser Allee, subway (U-Bahn) U2 Sch\u00f6nhauser Allee, Trams M1, M13 and 50.\n
\nLocation: Sonntags-Club e.V.<\/a>, Greifenhagener Stra\u00dfe 28, 10437 Berlin – Prenzlauer Berg\n\n\t\tBeginner`s Stroll\n\t<\/h3>\n\tWho is the beginner`s stroll aimed at?<\/strong>
\nTo all those who are either just discovering their interest in BDSM, or who have been dealing with it for a long time, but who dare to leave their own four walls for the first time and want to approach others. Of course, BDSM enthusiasts, who would like a guided first insight into the Berlin BDSM \/ sex shop world and are not afraid to repeat the basics, are also welcome. If this doesn’t apply to you, please come to one of the munches instead. Only adults can take part in the beginners’ stroll. Please be ready to present your 2G credentials at the beginning.\n
\n<\/strong>In contrast to the beginners’ meeting, which is usually held in the protected back room in the Sonntags-Club, this time we are on the road and visiting 4 special shops themed erotic \/ BDSM. Before and between the stroll units, topics are moderated in quieter corners. At this meeting “on tour” there are many opportunities to get into conversation and ask questions.\n
\nThis meeting is quite new, so we can count the number don’t estimate yet. Between 4 and 10 are expected.\nHow does a beginner’s stroll work?
\n<\/strong>At the meeting point there is a short round of introductions, during which nobody has to say anything , but everyone can say something (which, by the way, always applies to our meetings).\n
\nThe beginners’ meeting and the beginners’ stroll are – just like the Munch – no dating facility. It serves only to establish contact with like-minded people and get rid of the most burning questions. We make sure that nobody is hit on against their will or asked about personal preferences.\n
\nNo, but since we sometimes stand outside for several minutes, dress for the respective weather.\nDoes it cost anything?<\/strong>
\nNo. However, since we take the subway for 3 stations, you should have a suitable ticket or small change with you.\nDo I have to register?<\/strong>
\nNo, just drop by.\nHow do I find you?<\/strong>
\nThe first meeting point is in front of the Other Nature shop. The shop is only a few meters away from Mehringdamm at the corner of Bergmannstra\u00dfe, but is somewhat hidden behind hedges, making it a discreet “entrance”.\nIs it important to show up on time?<\/strong>
\nYes. If you show up more than a quarter of an hour late, you will probably not find us again and will have missed the round of introductions. Please try again at the next meeting. We mean that seriously, because getting to know each other is very important for a trusting atmosphere. If you can’t or don’t want to show up on time, you’re welcome at the Munch – it’s not an issue there.\n\t\t\t\tWhen & Where\n\t\t\t\t
\nEnd: around 4 p.m. (U Alt-Tempelhof)\n\n\t\tBDSM Munch Potsdam\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\nBenkertstra\u00dfe 1
\n14467 Potsdam\n\n\t\tPet-Play Munch \n\t<\/h3>\n\t
Hardenbergstrasse 10
10623 Berlin<\/p>\n\n\t\tBerlin Munch\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
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\n\t\tD\/s-Munch (Friday)\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\nThe event is intended for people who live or have lived in a power-based relationship and are interested in sharing their experiences and difficulties with others. A positive attitude towards appropriate forms of relationships is required.\nIs there a dress code?<\/strong>
\nYeah-no… We meet in a public place, so don’t scare the villagers. Nevertheless, clothing appropriate to the theme is welcome.\nDo I have to register?<\/strong>
\nYes. Please register at least three days(!) in advance at stammtisch@ds-zirkel.de<\/a>.
\nWe meet at different locations, you will then be informed of the respective location. We are also happy to talk to you before you participate to see whether the expectations on both sides match.
\nYour contact for questions about the regulars’ table is Moonbeast.\n\t\t\t\tWhen & Where\n\t\t\t\t