We have summarized the various answers to this question under why an association?<\/a>.<\/p>\n A visit to our beginners meeting is a good starting point. There you meet other people in a small group who are just as new, nervous and insecure as you are. The experienced hosts take away the first fears and answer all questions, you can exchange ideas with others at ease. This makes the first time a great experience and encourages you to take the next step.<\/p>\n\t\t FAQ for BDSM Berlin<\/p>\n\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n No. Plain and simple. We are not a “dating website”. We do however have an ad section. Here is a collection of forums used for those ads. Often there are matches found, both male and female, if the add is well written and honest. If you do ned help, we are more than happy to provide you with some pointers.<\/p>\n FAQ for finding a partner <\/p>\n\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n You wont be eaten alive or pused to do anything against your will at any of the events and parties. In smaller clubs or if you get introduced to the organiser it is often good to go to explicitly tell them that you are new and don’t really know the rules as to how to behave. Most of the time you will get tips and explanations, or if the organisers don’t have time themselves, they will introduce you to people who can tell you more. Some events or clubs also offer specific introductory evenings.<\/p>\n In the calendar you can find everything we know about these things. Sorry if we can’t be of more help. <\/p>\n Sorry, but no. We are only working the Berlin area. and thats all we know. <\/p>\n As you might have nmoticed, we do not have a link share programm with comercial websites. We are however always interested in working together with shops or service providers in Berlin.<\/p>\n There are many BDSM websites with manuals and tips from A to Z, like Lustschmerz<\/a>. Do a google search and you will find a lot of them. Please be advised that we can only handle requests on an individual basis. If you have searched the web and still cant find the right link, contact us and we will try to find it with you.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, we can’t be of help here.<\/p>\n\n\t\tThere are so many offers. Where do I begin?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
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\n\t\tQuestions concerning finding a partner\n\t<\/h2>\n
\n\t\tI am looking for a partner. Could you guys help me find one?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tI am looking for a partner. Will I find him \/ her with you guys?\n\t<\/h3>\n\tThere is an urban myth that the first time you go to a munch, you find your perfect partner. Preferably so perfect that everything goes so perfect that you are married \/ collared within the first month and it holds forever. by just being perfectly honest we can tell you: “Dream on”. This will never happen as just about nobody goes to a munch for this purpose. Its actually frowned upon to just go to munches to pick up chicks \/ dudes. Most of the time it is worth more to just make contacts, have nice chats. And you never know, you might find your dream partner at a munch, but probably not by trying out old, used pick up lines.
\nMunches can help you boost your self esteam, come out of your shell and be able to talk about the topics that interest you, and if that leads to findiung a partner thats right for you, the better.\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t
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\n\t\tIm new to all of this. Which one of the clubs and events are for beginnners?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tI am in Berlin from… till… Can you guys give me tips where I can find parties and events during this timeframe?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tCan you give me tips about Events or clubs in Paris \/ Moscow or Bielefeld?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tMiscellaneous\n\t<\/h2>\n
\n\t\tHere is the new URL of my new SM-and or fetish website. Can I exchange links with you?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tI am looking for Bondage manuals \/ tipps as to what I can do with my partner \/ building manuals…\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tWe would like to rent a room in Berlin with SM equipment. Are there any available?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t
\n\t\tI really like what you are doing here, but I sadly do not live in Berlin. Is there something similar also in my city?\n\t<\/h3>\n\t